In America, tragedy often brings lawsuits. People seek out relief from the suffering by bringing others to court. Also, given how the law is structured there is usually money involved.
So, it was expected that after the horrific Stamford, Connecticut fire on Christmas Day 2011 which took the lives of three young childen and their grandfather and grandmother, there would be lawsuits. The father of the three girls Matthew Badger is suing the contractor who did the renovations on the house as well as the city of Stamford. His former wife and mother of the children Madonna Badger is suing the city of Stamford for tearing down the house the day after before evidence has been collected. Her lawyer is Frank Corsa. The insurance company had denied her claim.
Also, as expected, little healing has happened, reports THE NEW YORK POST. Tragedy tends to change us, with no going back to who we were and it might take a long time to find a self who can survive and maybe even thrive post-trauma. That may be a brutal lesson for the Newtown, CT parents who had lost children. Suffering isn't always ennobling.
This Christmas to get away from the U.S. style festivities Madonna traveled to Thailand to be with girls who were orphans. However, notes THE POST, that didn't lift her spirit from any of its suffering. The children reminded her too much of her own three daughters who no longer exist.
America, once defined by its aggressive optimism, is learning to accept grief for what it is. The loss might be one's children, a job, a nest egg, a pet, or youthfulness. The pain may never go away, not completely. In Thailand, Madonna cried often. She may continue to cry for the rest of her life for the little lives which were taken from her.
The elephant in the room on this one is: Does suing help with the suffering? Tort reformers such as the U.S. Chamber of Commerce should do research on that.